Words Of Wisdom On Marriage  From Mallan Aminu Daurawa  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "O you who are young, let h...

 

Words Of Wisdom On Marriage From Mallan Aminu Daurawa

 (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "O you who are young, let him who is most powerful among you marry, for he is the one who guards your eyes and your genitals."

We learn from this tradition the importance of marriage and the benefits it brings to young people.

If a young man or woman possesses the character and power needed to get married, reading is not an excuse to marry young.

So, is reading a valid reason for not getting married right away?

Some claim to have a degree after graduation, but this is not always the case. After graduating from university, he enlisted in the army and served his community well. After that, he packed up his things and headed for work. After his job, his current position was to announce his intention to start working and see the amount of what he could get. He bought the land after recovering the losses he had lost from his previous job. He built a house on the property he bought after he bought it. He finished building the house, then went out and bought a car. He had some money left over after he bought the car, so he got married. Therefore, these estimates assume that a person will be 35 to 40 years old or older before he or she can achieve his or her goals. As a result, his strength began to decline after he married someone over 40. He may have married a 20- or 15-year-old girl as an alternative. When she needed him, he too fell asleep at the moment. In their social environment, there will always be issues to be fought.

Others plan to wait for a degree before getting married. Such a calculation is used. Increased age in a woman’s life represents a loss of dignity and worth. He is a man whose value increases with age.

When you tell an elder what to do, he feels betrayed. Women of all ages prefer to use the word "girl" to describe themselves.

As a result, a woman's time at school is reduced. Then she ran to find a husband. Being engaged and seeing how well educated she was, and perhaps even having a job, made her believe in old age. The attacker, on the other hand, believes he is not his classmate and is afraid of being overpowered. This puts many women in a bad position. Then the woman woke up terrified, walking in front of her trying to escape. She also does not want to be seen as less intelligent than her because of her education and work.

As a result, if you mention a senior in high school who went on to become a doctor or a professor married her. His real words are: Find me a high school girl who is not well educated. You see, they are educated, and they try to avoid women who are also educated. While women are fleeing from illiterate young men.

Parents and officials should build a system that allows women and young people to get married and go to school without interference. If a girl wants to get married, she should do so in order to be able to support herself and her future children. When a couple decides not to start a family until they graduate, that is fine. Islam takes care of human needs and provides for everyone's needs and wants. In addition, the Prophet of Allah commanded any authority over the number of young people to marry. In the same way, God commands the saints to marry young men and women, and He also endures those who cannot marry until God rewards them with His riches. Consequently, if there is power but no marriage, there is a departure from the teaching of this commandment. This is why it is said that God is the best. Anyone who refuses to marry can do so.

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